Wednesday, 20 July 2011

Teenage love.

So here's the question: What is teenage love?

Some describe it as a magical, heart racing, wonderful, fantastic feeling you get when you find someone who you are deeply compatible with and you's just 'clicked'. Others describe it as a stupid, unrealistic thing that was only invented to hurt.

Everything has a different view on it. My view? No need to get your heart deep into such a commitment at such a young age.

I believe people can fall in love during their teenage years, i've seen it happen. There's no denying 'love' has gotten itself around like an STD. The only problem is those few people that decide to throw the word around like it's fucking nothing. Or and i'm talking about some guy's, don't freak! I've seen a few guy's just move on from girl to girl, constantly saying the same thing about each of them. Either they're hoping for something or they fall for someone faaaaar too quickly. Which is never good let's face it. From my view, it seems girls are breaking hearts far more than guy's which overrules the stereotype of 'guy's just want to break your heart'. Not true, there are some VERY nice guys out there. Or, you see the girl who's fallen head over heels for some guy who appears nice but really will just treat them like shit and fuck them over until they're left with broken pieces. Serious commitment at this age just seems silly, if you find someone you like? date them, enjoy their company but do not go around acting like a married couple and start compromising yourself for them.

You see girl's and guy's on facebook changing their status to 'In a Relationship' and they act as if it's the only thing they have going for them. Just because you are with someone does not mean you should make them your life priority. YOU should always be YOUR first priority.

I'm usually seen as 'unromantic', 'too closed up' or 'heartless'.
Just because i don't see the point of falling so deeply in love you have to start acting disgustingly cheesy and romantic. Apparently i need to open up.

But why is that? Why shouldn't i be aloud to guard myself from heartache and hurt?

I'm an independent person, i always have been. I enjoy looking out for myself, that shouldn't be seen as negative.

I'm not saying i won't ever fall in love. Because i could. I could be walking about town tomorrow and see someone and fall so deeply in love and i become everything i hate. If it happens, it happens. But i am 16!! I don't need all that at my age, i should be enjoying myself instead of hopelessly falling from one relationship to another desperately searching for 'The One'. Hello? Need i mention again... I AM 16. I have just started the best years of my life.

That's the problem with my generation and 'love'. People try and find it, in hope of some wonderful expectation of first kisses, staring deeply into each others eyes, holding hands along a beach. BLAH BLAH BLAH.

And of course, everyone has someone they're interested in. You just need to take it step by step and don't sail of in a frenzy love attack on your naive little heart.

Sorry for such a short, mind numbing post. I just had to get it out!

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